ALLTHAT, dont worry, not getting that feed probably saved me major problems by letting me know I had another one. Long, story, I'll reply in a PM.
I have a solution to the internet mess, its a 11 element home made YAGI antenna. Glued to a cheap"G" usb stick on a extension cable. Increasing the TX power doesn't buy you much at RF, but increasing the antenna directivity does. Since I didnt increase the TX power, I'm still legal, up to a point.
I bounce off a large steel building into a node a half mile away. I do my main INET work at work and then in the evening, for text based stuff like PL and email, I wait till late at night and use the "borrowed" node. They know I'm doing it. Its spotty without a diversity system on my end, but it works if I lie on my bed on my side and "actively" hold the antenna up at full reach and steer it for the path modulation caused by passing trucks, snow, localized inversion layers, etc...
While I don't suggest building big yagis unless you have decent RF gear, these work well
http://www.wa5vjb.com/ The 2.4 Ghz WA5VJB yagi on a PCB is like 6$ and worked well for my first try, I wanted more gain and went to a home made one.
The secret is using LOW LOSS hardline coax type UT141 or soft coax type LMR400 between the antenna and the device your modding. Keep the coax short, less then a foot. SMA and other type connectors are hard to do right with crimp tools, so its best to find a surplus piece of UT on ebay and trim it. Even the size of the solder joint at 2.4 ghz matters. .085 hardline will work OK, but keep it under six inches.
NEVER SAY DIE!!!!
Steve