I find it interesting how many laser enthusiasts have or have had rc hobbies, must be a certain aspect of personality type. I definitely agree on the sim time. Coming from a flying and gliding background, I assumed the controls would be rather similar. And for the most part I find the physics of rc flight to be very much the same, however the one major difference for the pilot is aspect ratio. RC flight and heli's in particular are imo much more difficult to master due to the constantly changing aspect ratio. I found clearview to be very nice sim for the price.
Here's my fleet :
Lama v3 - All upgraded as I broke the oem parts a few at a time hehe. This one I can actually fly to de-stress. I can take it out in the back yard with minimal setup and can surprisingly take a beating.
Honey Bee King 2 - This one's almost always awaiting repairs hehe. 3 hours in the shop for 10 minutes (if I'm lucky) of flight time.
Focus 400 fixed wing - 4 channel trainer, just picked it up not too long ago, had issues with the original battery. All fixed up now, but awaiting it's maiden flight.
Cybird P1 - Another difficult one to keep in one piece . Though various diy repairs work for awhile, currently has a broken wing. I'd like to build one with 2 axis analog tail feather control, I'd think that would fly much more realistically.