Just understand there's no such thing as a cheap good projector or not that I've seen anyway. NRG seem to be about the cheapest projectors I've seen with decent build and credentials. Although I've never seen anything from Audiovisual above in fairness to him.
However generally, most cheap projectors are usually cheap for a reason, usually because they use cheap components or take quality shortcuts to keep costs low eg overdriving lasers.
18 months ago $1,500 would have been a bargain for a 2ND HAND RGB of between 500mw-1W.
The picture has somewhat shifted with the new cheap blues that are out there but red or green laser modules still cost lots of bucks as do decent scanners. With scanners, in many instances what is claimed isn't always delivered.
On the subject of control, at the cheapest end you're looking at Spaghetti which is Gary - John Yahas (from on here) 's baby. To that you'll need to add a soundcard DAC which will require soldering and modification on your behalf. I don't know but think Spaghetti is around $50 then you have the soundcard and any additional component costs.
Climbing away from Spaghetti to something more sophisticated, there's ishow off ebay which will set you back around $200 and I think it fair to say it isn't very well respected here:
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/iSHOW-LASER-LI...item19bbb7ef1e
There the RIYA DAC and LDS (Laser Design Studio) which I think comes in around $400 for both.
The for the arguably the best control, there's Pangolin QS / FB3 (a high end consumer / semi pro level product) that I believe has a US retail of $599.
If you're not already getting the picture, then to put it bluntly, to get PC control of your laser, you're probably looking at a minimum $200 if you don't want to do any DIY.
To get really good control, budget for Laser Design Studio or the choice of most on here, Pangolin.
As others have tried to explain, lasers are not a cheap hobby.
Take a look at component costs on Marc's site and you'll soon realise what you're up against with that budget:
http://www.ctlasers.com/purchases/
150mw 532nm green laser stand alone (no case, no scanners, etc) is the amount of your entire budget.