The first question is how much do you want to spend. There a bunch of ways of doing this but your budget will dictate what way is best.
The simplest and most reliable is to use time delay relays. Something like this.
http://www.alliedelec.com/search/pro...x?SKU=70175105
There a bunch of different models that would work. They are easy to wire and setup as well as being bullet proof when finished.
You can go with board level electronic things or micro controllers, or, or, But it depends on how much experience you have with nitty gritty stuff. If you want a project or if you can just throw a couple of hundred at something that will just work when you hit the button in the club....
chad
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.