I see what you are asking. You want to build a whole laser show setup...
You just need 3 things.
1) A Projector (contains lasers, power supplies, and scanners (galvos))
2) A DAC (interfaces the computer with your projector)
3) Software
The first question you need to ask is:
What is your budget? For less than $500 you can get all 3 components and not have to do any soldering, drilling, cutting, etc... basically pull it out of the box... plug together ... and go.
The more you spend... the less you have to do yourself (up to a point). Then you can go from there.
I encourage you to look around a little more before spending any money. You really should educate yourself some more so you are familiar with the basic parts of the system. Not only will this help you get exactly what you need it will help you ask the right questions.
Take a look at this:
http://www.laserfx.com/Backstage.Las...tGraphics.html it is a bit out of date ...