Please note this is my experience. I've had 3 separate offers for help without me asking for it. All 3 have yet to follow through. On one I got some excuses, then ignored. One didnt even remember what was offered, then tried to sell me something different. The third, which is a popular company rep here, just stopped communication entirely. I'm very good with communication, so that was not the issue. All were one on one in PM.
The problem is I do need help, but I'm ok with doing it on my own too. What is happening is the good intentions are wasting my time. I want to finish my projects, but I'm waiting for these people to come though. Its pushing my projects back further, and further because I take people at their word, and so far is mostly BS. Speaking for myself I follow through on what I promise. IE http://www.photonlexicon.com/forums/...-Seller-Review Which may not sound like much, but if you knew my living situation you'd know how much effort that was. I'm in no situation to just give stuff away. Just getting user of a car to go to the post office was a hassle.
Right now I'm at a complete stand still, and its going to be that way for a long time because I was stupid enough to wait for people to keep their word. Please dont think I'm impatient. I have no problem waiting a month+ for something to come though. Its the excuses, and drop off of communication which is my problem. If you dont want to follow though then at least tell me so I can move on. I know life gets in the way, I also know good intentions are worthless without following though.
Sorry for the rant, I'm very frustrated. i cant even post here anymore because I have nothing to discuss till my projects move forward.
/end rant