I've broken a couple diode leads over the years. Its rough. You want to use flexible silicon wiring or non-hefty copper/alum wiring. The heat shrink insulation should help keep the diode leads from flexing as well.
Regarding the driver, you want beam suppression with the low power diodes, so I would avoid Flexmods. Beam suppression Flexmods are sold only by Innolasers and require some challenging soldering. I have had a variety of problems with the beam suppression Flexmods as well - beam suppression not working, erratic output, stuck gain pots, and total failure. One of the failures was a bad solder joint (my fault), but the others have not been explained. I have purchased about a dozen of these and have over 50% failure rate. I have not had any issues with the non-beam suppression models.
Alternatively, I would recommend this driver sold by PL member BBE. They are true analog output, have reliable beam suppression, optional overheat protection, optional interlock, bias setting, easy current measurement, status LEDs, etc. I have several of these and have nothing but good things to say about them.
Another good alternative is PL member Dave's driver available on Lasershowparts.com. They have most of the same features as BBE's. I have at least a few and find them reliable and easy to work with.
-David
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