Buffo said ...
Not strictly true here in the UK ...... at the last UK meet we had hundreds of girls trying to break down the doors just to have a look at Robs Massive Beast, they were mighty impressed by its length but unfortunately he could not make it performThis is almost exclusively a guy's hobby. Not that women aren't welcome, mind you. It's just that most of them aren't interested. ("Who wants to hang out with a bunch of geeks?" is the standard excuse.) I imagine it's roughly the same in the UK...
all the best .... Karl