Anthony, you used a male DMX connector. I thought I had to use a female.
Also you know the pins form the FB3 DMX wire, there are 5 pins. On my DMX connector at the back I only had 3 places to put the pins. Do I have the wrong connector? Whats the name of the one I need?
OK Found it but it's well expensive...
http://www.djsoundkit.co.uk/proddetail.php?prod=NE097