
Originally Posted by
mliptack
I think I speak for a lot of the other members on this forum when I say that I am sick of hearing the bickering from both parties as well as the Ben-this, Ben-that crap.
Ben believe me I am not trying to beat a dead horse here. If you continue to help out members, do us all a favor, and write up a contract or something outlining everything you will and will not do for your client. It doesn't even have to be a "contract" but more of a 'this is what we agreed upon' statement. Let your clients look it over and come to some conclusion based upon what is expected out of your service. Don't do ANYTHING until you both fully understand what is (and can be) expected out of your services. Have them print out a copy, sign it, then pay shipping ($0.42) to have the contract returned - Problem solved.
Since I am sure there was nothing like a contract for this job, except for miles of email trails that I don't even bother to read when you do post them, instead do us a favor - Itemize what it is that you did purchase for this re-build. I don't want anyone to be cheated out of money, if you spent more than $200 on actual components then I suggest the feud gets dropped. Nexus the projector may not be built to an exact standard you were looking for, but components that you would have needed to be purchased anyway were now just bought for you by Ben. Any leftover money that Ben did not spend should be returned to DJ Nexus.
DJ Nexus, this applies to you too along with EVERYONE else on this forum. It doesn't take that much time to outline what it is that you are paying for someone to do, or are getting paid to do for someone. Come to a conclusion between both parties and then proceed with the service and payment. However Nexus, in your case, there was no contract, no signed agreement (that I know of) but I think its fair that for what Ben did purchase (ie Aluminum base plate etc.) he will not need to refund you for those components. As far as the soldering iron, solder, and random assortment of wires, hardware and connectors, if Ben wants those 'freebies' back I think it would be appropriate for him to purchase shipping to have DJ Nexus return them. I dont think they were necessary to ship them in the first place and I think it would be silly if Ben included that in his itemized invoice.
Ben, you are clearly a smart kid, you have a lot of potential, and it is always interesting to see someone with such as passion as you have at such a young age... we are all sick of hearing about the 'crap you pulled' whether or not thats how it happened. Just cover your own ass and write up a simple contract. If you need help with one - google it. It doesn't need to be written by a lawyer or in that cluttered terminology that is so prevalent in contracts. Instead make it something that both you and whoever you are helping can understand. All that's been happening lately is you and your clients trying to piece together a pseudo contract after something went wrong.
There are many mediators on this forum, that I am sure would be happy to assist to bring this to a settlement that both parties can mutually benefit from and keep both parties from feeling screwed.
I have nothing against either one of you. I would be more than happy to help settle this off of the forums, so we can all live on in our happy (non-bickering) world that we call Photon Lexicon.