hey andy first of all you should mask your adress to (at) never post emails full, spambots love that kind of stuff.
Second: don't use caps like this
it's headache inducing.
Third It's not allowed for a forum to read your private messages without prior notice, they are called private for a reason.
Fourth: If someone uses the power to read peoples private messages for his bussiness gain: this wont last long till it leaks out and someone puts himself in a bad industry position as being an unreliable and unfair businessman.
There is no worry.