What is your current firmware level?
Download the sitter app from the etherdream website. That will tell you firmware level and network info. Remember, the etherdream is designed to sit on a network that has a dhcp server. If you don't have one, it will timeout and self assign a non internet routable ip. Your computer needs to be in the same subnet.
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